There she saw older, single, white women, who were often surrounded by young Kenyans.“It was very easy to spot,” Klougart told Business Insider.If you have feelings to share, pick up the phone or run the risk of sounding pathetic.And just for good measure, don’t ever start a text with “We need to talk,” “I’ve been meaning to tell you,” or “So I went to the doctor…” Yes, we know the 8-megapixel camera on the i Phone may make her photos to you feel like your own personal Playboy, but overly sexual demands are a quick way to turn her from hot to cold.

While visiting the country’s numerous beautiful beaches, Ama was struck by the many older European women she saw carousing with young Kenyans.

The hotels in Mombasa were full of European travelers, both male and female, travelling alone.

Everyone at the hotels, from the receptionists to the help, was aware of relationships between those in the hotel and the locals, according to Klougart.

As Baniuszewicz says, “Tell me where we’re going and when you want me to be there—done.” Bottom line: be a man with a plan. Text message 101—any emotional conversation via text is an obvious no-no.

There’s no excuse for not sounding charming and hilarious over text. ” and “cool” will lead her to believe that either you’re too lazy or just not funny—and that’s when your chances of scoring plummet. Yet since so many men still make this blunder, it has to be said.